|
|
|
OH THE DRAMA...
|
|
| |
jeudi, octobre 14, 2004
|
ok...i've been thinking about this a lot recently. one of the MOST unattractive things someone can do is cuss. now, don't get me wrong, i have my fair share of bad-word moments (ie-playing powderpuff football), but...GOODNESS!!! every other word that comes out of you mouth DOESN'T need to be a bad one. and it's so much more unattractive when girls (females) do it. you know...i think that may be one of the things i like MOST about christopher. i RARELY hear him cuss, but when he does it's all over. maybe that's what i respect so much about him. that's the kind of family atmosphere i was raised in. mom and dad didn't cuss. granted, i tease dad about his "bad language" when he says things like "hell" and "crap" or whatever, but he's NEVER EVER EVER EVER used the "f-word". why should he? and IFF you feel the need to use it, at least use it meaning what it really means! i'm no goody two shoes, but there's a time and a place to say things like that. and, think about it like this, if you use bad language all the time, it has NO effect when you're mad. you KNOW when i'm really really mad/frustrated because that's one of the VERY few times i talk like that. the good thing about that, though, is that people know. it's not an everyday occurance to hear me say "oh, f***" or anything stupid like that. granted, i may call you a butt nugget, but i don't call you an "@$$ hole" or anything.
i think our society lets us talk without really thinking about what we're saying. i mean...we've grown up in such a "dog-eat-dog world" that we say something to someone without really thinking about how it will make him/her feel. we call things "tacky" or "gross" or "stupid" or whatever without taking the other person's feelings into consideration first. i don't know...maybe it's just me. goodness, i know i do it. i'm HORRIBLE about it...ask chris. i say something intending it one way but the way i say it, the words i choose to use, the tone i choose to use, reflect a negative attitude. it's sad. it's hurtful. it sucks.
ok, i'm off my soapbox now. haha...but sadly enough, now i don't have anything to say. it's going to be a good day!!! erin and i are going over to david's later to bake! I'M SOOO EXCITED!!! mike and i are studying later...i have a mid-term at 1...*sigh* it's ho cho weather...I NEED SOME HOCHO!!!
11:34 AM
|
|
| |
|
|
|
